Hahahaha. I tried out Mint once, crashed randomly so no Mint. Then Manjaro and it was great but said to be shady. So MX Linux which was also great but software was outdated. Then KDENeon and Kubuntu, broke both, then Fedora KDE, broke that too.

Now I am on Fedora Kinoite, KDE is all user folders so everything is still customizable.

You may want to disable file indexing as its really weird and crashy. For security also CUPS and bluetooth, no GUI switches poorly