So either a trait or idea someone has that others make fun of, that saves the day?

My example:

Mine is back in 7th grade there was going to be a chocolate fondue day. 5 kids volunteered to bring chocolate chips for the chocolate fountain, then everyone else just said what they would bring. Most people said like marshmallows, Graham crackers, pretzels, the like.

One kid said he’s bringing chocolate bars. The teacher was confused and actively tried to discourage this idea. But the kid was insistent that dipping cold chocolate bars in a chocolate fountain was amazing. Some kids even made fun of him a bit, but the teacher moved on cause at the end of the day he could could bring what he wanted and it was all volunteer so can’t be picky.

The day comes along and… most of the kids who were supposed to bring the chocolate chips for the chocolate fountain didn’t. The fountain couldn’t even start with how little chocolate showed up. I think only one person brought a bag, which was not enough at all for a class of 25.

Then comes in our Rudolph with a giant bag of fun sized hershy milk chocolate bars.

There was no clapping or anything dramatic, but as soon as he showed up the teacher pulled him aside and a few minutes later his chocolate bars had been melted in the teacher break room and chocolate fountain day was saved!

  • kromem@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Myself, though it was only recently that I realized it.

    Two of my family members have significant enough dyslexia that it interfered with their schooling and while I learned to read very young I tended to only find reading easy if it was based on learned word shapes.

    Letter by letter was always very difficult, I did terribly in my required foreign language classes, I’d routinely get math questions wrong not because I made a mistake in calculation but because I copied the numbers from the board in the wrong order. And even today I will regularly mispronounce words I learned from reading, consistently switching around similarly sized letters in the middle even when I’ve read it thousands of times. And thank goodness for spell check.

    So every so often people that know I can read and write in English well would make fun of the mispronouncing or my sucking at different languages not knowing I have a family history of dyslexia and likely have a biological basis for my difficulty.

    But then last year I saw a paper about the possible benefits of this neurodivergence:

    Areas of enhanced ability that are consistently reported as being typical of people with DD include seeing the big picture, both literally and figuratively (e.g., von Károlyi, 2001; Schneps et al., 2012; Schneps, 2014), which involves a greater ability to reason in multiple dimensions (e.g., West, 1997; Eide and Eide, 2011). Eide and Eide (2011) have highlighted additional strengths related to seeing the bigger picture, such as the ability to detect and reason about complex systems, and to see connections between different perspectives and fields of knowledge, including the identification of patterns and analogies. They also observed that individuals with DD appear to have a heightened ability to simulate and make predictions about the future or about the unwitnessed past (Eide and Eide, 2011).

    I had a very successful career for some of the largest companies in the world focused on an interdisciplinary research based approach looking for patterns and trends in what was going to happen next in a particular subject domain.

    It was honestly kind of crazy seeing the things I for decades considered my personal superpower helping me at what I applied myself to simply being the other side of the coin of the somewhat embarrassing difficulty I had with various aspects of language.

    I was Rudolph after all.

    In fact over the pandemic I got really into ancient history, which was always a field I enjoyed but had no interest in pursuing seriously academically given the language requirements, and it was wild reading research that regularly seemed to miss key details in reasoning and patterns. It made me realize that there’s a handful of subjects that are extremely inaccessible to dyslexics and that as a result these fields likely have a net deficit in the positive factors associated with that divergence in turn.

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      6 months ago

      love this, thank you for sharing. after 33 years of life hiding and compensating for my perceived differences, earlier this year a healthcare professional finally diagnosed me with AuDHD. i have always had several surprising standout skillsets with which, as an adult, i have been able to monetize in order to support myself. but i have also always struggled severely in a number of unexpected areas that have a noticeable impact on my daily life. the context my diagnosis provides has been full of healing and understanding. i can be proud of my unique abilities and also accepting of my unique limitations.

      it is super exciting to hear how another neurodivergent mind has learned to harness their gifts even amongst the obstacles. cheers!