How could I compare if I’ve never been a man to find out.

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Most likely stronger.

The male orgasm is easier to achieve and pretty much guaranteed.

From what my female friends have said it can be rarer for them.

This really entirely depends on the woman. I’m a lesbian and I love to orgasm and don’t feel satisfied until I do. My girlfriend is the opposite and is more there for the journey. She is indifferent to achieving an orgasm and can be satisfied without one.

It depends on the person. But yes it’s frustrating as heck to be close and not get there. And even more frustrating it would be if it was because the guy thought women didn’t care about it.

Just being turned on, though? Not actively having sex? I dunno. Are you saying that every single time you are turned on even a little you have to follow that all the way to orgasm? I don’t think most guys are like that, or at least not the ones I’ve been with.

Women on the internet?? Impossible!! /s

Not a lady but I’ve been married to one for a couple decades and I think we have good communication.

I’d wager that there is little difference in the urge to get off. I’d wager that the biggest difference lies in where ‘getting off’ falls within the whole sequence of events.

For most men, getting off is the last period at the end of the last sentence of the last chapter. That may create urgency in their partner that might not otherwise be there.

Can we leave the thinly veiled spankbank questions to reddit please?

Follow up question for ladies: how do you more usually / prefer to get off: 1) by just “standard” penetration or 2) finger/tongue/others stimulation?

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