Hi all,

I haven’t used Discord in a while, but it became so that now I have to use it for communication with certain people getting support for some services that I use. What I’m doing currently is:

  • using a separate randomised e-mail address only for the Discord account
  • using a randomly generated username
  • no profile picture
  • tweaking the settings as best I can for privacy

Other than these points, I’m also being wary of talking about anything personal on Discord. Would you add anything so I can be even safer when using Discord?

  • LazerDickMcCheese@sh.itjust.works
    2·
    1 month ago

    I know interested people don’t like to talk about it…but we, the people, should really be moving away from Discord. A bucket of water doesn’t fix a burning house, ya know?

    • flux@lemmy.ml
      2·
      1 month ago

      Moving away from Discord can mean you need to stop interacting with the community using it. My personal examples are: Tilt5, Makera, Turbo Sliders. In the these cases Discord is also the way to access support for something you’ve paid for.

      Getting thise communities to move into something open (e.g. Matrix) can be a tall order.

      • rar@discuss.online
        1·
        29 days ago

        It’s a hostage situation they’re doing like any proprietary social network. You want to encourage people to move away from them, but then you need to interact with those same people in order to do that.

      • LazerDickMcCheese@sh.itjust.works
        1·
        1 month ago

        I get your point, but that’s exactly what I do. When someone say “just use discord”, I drop their product/service/etc. and move on. I’m not saying everyone else should do that, but my life is too short for “support” via Discord

  • m-p{3}@lemmy.ca
    2·
    1 month ago

    Always consider what you say on Discord as potentially public, since there is no E2EE.

  • refalo@programming.dev
    1·
    1 month ago

    The biggest issue IMO is the random phone-walling. Eventually, all the things you try to do to increase privacy will just cause Discord to force your account into phone verification. This happened to me many times. It’s now to the point where I cannot even sign up for discord whatsoever because it immediately transitions from the logged in screen to “something suspicious going on” and forces you to give out a personal mobile number, which I refuse.

    • Tmpod@lemmy.ptM
      0·
      1 month ago

      Yeah, they have upped their “paranoia” quite a bit in the past couple of years. A while back, I discovered smspool.net while trying to register for Claude (wanted to give it a shot, was disappointed) and was so satisfied by their interface and prices I’ve used it again in 3 other occasions. There may be other similar services out there, you should give one a try next time Discord prompts you for a number.

      • refalo@programming.dev
        1·
        1 month ago

        thanks for the recommendation, but unfortunately due to my privacy settings, most cloudflare sites do not work, I just get endless “are you human” prompts that never go away.

        Plus any site that uses crimeflare isn’t private anyway because they can MITM all your traffic including credit card info etc.

    • Tmpod@lemmy.ptM
      1·
      29 days ago

      While this may be a good end goal, these comments are really more harmful than anything else. Removing your dependency on some proprietary service can be very far from trivial, or even doable, there is a wide-range of internal or external factors preventing you from ditching it.
      For example, part of my work and a bunch of good online friends of mine use Discord, so I keep it around. If you do any social gaming as well, you’ll also most likely find it hard to ditch the platform, as it’s grown deep roots in the community.

      Anyway, it’s better to take small steps in the right direction than trying to make a U-turn and fail miserably.

      • Autonomous User@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        29 days ago

        I would invest more into stopping ‘friends’ encourging me to get abused than micro-optimising the malware infecting me. Not saying don’t break it down into steps.

  • GolfNovemberUniform@lemmy.ml
    1·
    1 month ago

    Discord doesn’t have encryption and, according to the terms of service, can read your messages. If you care about privacy, I definitely would not recommend using it for private conversations, especially after recent rumors about adding ads. I think they won’t lose the opportunity to use your DMs for it

    • refalo@programming.dev
      1·
      1 month ago

      That could potentially open them up to legal problems. Whether it’s technically legal or not, nobody wants the possibility of their livelihood being taken away by court costs just because some idiot who is wrong wants to fight them and lose anyway, because they can afford it and you can’t (and often times they know it).

      I once paid for access to a stock options trading group, but they only used discord. Their website had no other contact info at all. My discord account got randomly banned (it happened right after I joined an innocent server, but maybe because a bunch of people were joining at once, that triggered it? idk), so I could no longer use the service I was paying for. The service auto-renewed on my credit card and I had no way to contact the people to cancel my account (couldn’t even make a new discord account). I had to dispute the charge with my CC company and it took months of back and forth with them because they simply could not understand that I could no longer access the only method of support that they offered.

      • kitnaht@lemmy.world
        1·
        1 month ago

        It’s not illegal to tell people that a company uses discord for support. You’re not slandering them if it’s the truth.

    • helenslunch@feddit.nl
      1·
      1 month ago

      Honestly the list of ones that DONT use Discord would be shorter. It’s extremely unfortunate. I championed Discord for many years as well.