Perhaps by those around you, by your company, by your community, by society, by a government, by your Lemmy instance,… It doesn’t matter.

Please describe your experiences below. (no judgment) 😎

  • kava@lemmy.world
    131·
    11 months ago

    We are all manipulates by our governments and companies trying to sell us things. On a smaller scale we are manipulated by the people in our lives. Even non-maliciously. Persuasion is a normal part of life.

    • average650@lemmy.worldEnglish
      4·
      11 months ago

      Sure, but usually the term manipulation has a negative connotation.

      In a sense, when my kid asks for fruit, they are manipulating me. But that’s not what anyone means. They mean a kind of devious persuasion.

      • kava@lemmy.world
        2·
        11 months ago

        Yes, I understand and agree. But for sake of argument… Fundamentally, what’s the difference? I try to make you believe what I want you to. Maybe I’m selling you a used car. Maybe I’m trying to have sex with you. Maybe I want you to give me a fruit.

        The government wants to justify a war, think tanks want you to support certain policies, advertisers want you to buy their product.

        I think the only real difference is scale and “maliciousness”. Your kid doesn’t have the capacity for large scale manipulation and his goals aren’t particularly harmful. However someone like Goebbels has both the capacity and very harmful goals.

        • dezmd@lemmy.worldEnglish
          2·
          11 months ago

          Fundamentally, what’s the difference?

          Ethics and morality, be it learned, instinctual (empathy), or incidental.

          • kava@lemmy.world
            2·
            11 months ago

            So if I manipulate you into doing something because I thought it was in your best interest, it isn’t manipulation anymore?

            Let’s say I know you’re drunk and don’t want you to drive. I trick you into giving me your keys by pretending to want to put away your coat. Is that manipulation?

            Some would say it’s ethical because you’re preventing potential harm. Some would say it’s unethical because you are lying and deceiving someone and essentially forcing them to do something against their will.

            I honestly just think manipulation goes hand and hand with communication. Almost anything we say is an attempt to sway people to our viewpoints, consciously or not. Manipulation isn’t bad or good, it just is.

  • t0fr@lemmy.ca
    11·
    11 months ago

    Advertising + Marketing + Influencers

    I just try to avoid them all as much as possible because they foul my mood

    • dezmd@lemmy.worldEnglish
      3·
      11 months ago

      I dont watch or listen to commercials, and Ive had ad blockers in some form since the early 00s even if it was just a custom hosts file.

      I wont watch regular tv with commercials and more than half the time will turn off youtube if watching thru a smart tv if they dont allow the ad skip. If Netflix had no ad tier, I’d have no Netflix.

  • kucuva@lemmy.world
    2·
    11 months ago

    Manipulation is cooked into the culture where I live. Sometimes it makes me mad, sometimes it disgusts me, but I’ve had to deal with it more often than I’d like.