In the bed isn’t bad at all, I just get my phone to note it. It just never happens in the bed, cuz I’m either sleeping, watching YT or having fun. It only happens while driving (without medication) or showering, or nearly everything else where you are actively doing something (which one should concentrate on).
The reason why I have ten alarms set every workday lol.
I really wish Google Calendar allowed you to change your default notification from 10 min though. Who the fuck can get anywhere or do anything in 10 min?
My default would need to be 1 day, 1 hour. Workdays 1 hour, and a 10 min.
It also needs to alarm instead of message tone. Would be nice.
Use a different calendar app. I use One Calendar currently.
Also, Calendar Notifications has been a godsend, it allows me to snooze events for predefined or even custom times.
My thoughts are like tears in rain.