Thank you for these words. When my ordeal began, it was hard to realize this straightout because that person looks and acts totally normal, except for the many microagression. They seem obsessed with how others perceive them, so their pristine image and me being a newcomer made me constantly blame myself until that slowly faded a bit each day as I came to realize the absolutely wise words you just typed above.
I think that could be a helpful trick. I noticed someone else in our office did that to that person and this person got quite uncomfortable. :)
The script is that I am poor and helpless and need thei constant advice and directions to function.
Ignoring them makes them angry. Several times I tried to ignore something and get distance but it always increases their desire to “check” me and make sure I’m okay and in-script. So avoiding or ignoreing them exacerbates this. :(
Narcissists at work. Seriously. Manipulative fucks who are ladder climbing and have little interest in the field. They make my life harder. I currently have to deal with one at work and I know many more are up ahead. How do you handle someone who basically shows classic signs of narcissism, and controlling and toxic behavior, especially when the person themselves are not in the slightest open to the idea of changing or being wrong or seeking help.
I’ve tried setting boundaries, being nice, being sneaky, being absent/avoidant and nothing seems to work. This person has chosen me for some reason to be their pet or something and they get angry when I sway from the script (which is the case on a daily basis).
Funny though how I see it pulled out so often in response.
Or is that something we keep telling people who are voting third party?
I eat ketchup out of a plate with a spoon.
The “Gaza Arabs”, classic erasure of the indigenous identity.
It’s okay to be Jewish in Palestine. The problem is when the genociding starts. No, that asshole should stay put and be tried for their crimes one day in democratic Palestine.
I see, thanks, I now understand why/how their remark could be read in that way.
I feel like if people never get an outlet to showcase inaccurate ideas, they may never change them.
What you said reminds me of that fake bestseller written by a sham to make the Iraq War easier to swallow but almost all of it is inaccurate: “Honor Lost: Love and Death in Modern-Day Jordan.” Worse of all, that book is most likely detrimental to real victims of honor crimes in Jordan.
What biases? (asking seriously)
I like IGF. My grandma who was a Nakba survivor always called them “Azrael” as in the angel of death. Can’t blame her, she only saw murser, pain, and forced displacement from them.
So fragile, men like that.
I appreciate the sentiment behind saying IOF or even IAF (attack instead of defencec not to be confused with the Israeli Air Forces) and I agree that they occupy and attack more than any defence they have ever done. But, ironically, it makes it hard to search and find information on IDF crimes…
I don’t get it… you mean what OP write sounds like new atheism garbage? It could just be someone genuinely asking though, right?
Fake Qurans are hard to fool anyone with because plenty of people (me included, an atheist) memorized bits of it verbatim. People can easily cross reference anything with the thousands of online websites that offer digital Quran copies. Many have tried, and many times it eas accidental typos that urged authorities to draw back and destroy many copies with “errors”. There is also this one wacko cult leader obsessed with numerology and the number 19 who republished the Quran with some added verses. It was not taken lightly.
A functional healthcare system.
LinkedIn.