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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • It is a social issue. People being incapable of taking care of themselves is inevitable. All civilizations had these issues. Families, churches and general generosity of neighbors have always been used to mitigate this.

    Now with the wealth gap increasing and the individualistic philosophy in our society with not noticing and tending to these early on. We only notice once the person is a full blown junkie. Many needed help for a a short moment in life and could of become autonomous after, many are both permanently incapable of autonomy. Either way society have to deal with them. We have enough resources! For the price of just one of those opulent pick up we could probably shelter one person for 2-5 years.


  • pec@sh.itjust.workstoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comSleepy
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    9 months ago

    I moved to the city so I don’t have to drive every day. The only way for me to not daydream while driving was to drive fast enough for it to be dangerous.

    One of my friend, often a my passenger, admitted he felt safer when I was driving fast and when I was a low speed he would “copilot” for me.


  • pec@sh.itjust.workstoMemes@lemmy.mlMadness
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    10 months ago

    That’s your experience.

    I have worked in very reputable places and none of that tip would reach the cooks. If we were lucky they would pay us a beer at the club later. I think it’s regional though. I know in Quebec waiters won’t share because the government assume they get 15% tip from everything bill and taxes them accordingly.





  • I feel like Inflation is not hitting me as much as my suburban friends. They keep complaining about the big grocery store chain collusion (they got caught increasing bread prices a few years back).

    Where I live there’s line 3 mom&pop produce/pastry/butcher between me and the big chain grocery store. My big chain grocery store is cheaper then other store of the same franchise.

    We built huge expensive highway sso huge corps could build mega stores that killed all the locally owned stores. Now they so what they want.








  • A more useful guideline would be something like: how to steer a conversation to be constructive for both parties.

    I couldn’t get chatgpt to make this into a spectrum like in the pyramid but if you invert the order of the negative impact section and concatenate it after the positive liste you get the text for that pyramid. It does make sense though

    Positive Impact:

    1. Collaborative problem-solving
    2. Active listening and empathy
    3. Finding common ground
    4. Constructive feedback
    5. Open-ended questions
    6. Positive tone and inclusive language
    7. Clarifying and paraphrasing
    8. “I” statements
    9. Avoiding defensiveness and judgment
    10. Seeking solutions together

    Negative Impact:

    1. Interrupting or talking over the other person
    2. Dismissing or invalidating the other person’s perspective
    3. Using aggressive or confrontational language
    4. Making personal attacks or insults
    5. Ignoring or belittling the other person’s feelings
    6. Dominating the conversation and not allowing equal participation
    7. Stonewalling or refusing to engage in discussion
    8. Manipulating or twisting the other person’s words
    9. Engaging in passive-aggressive behavior
    10. Refusing to consider alternative viewpoints