Like when Charlie becomes/starts doing a Griecko thing or Michael Scott imitates Ryan’s ridiculous facial hair

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    But does that carry a contrived angle to it? Like when you genuinely love something someone else does or likes…

    My favorite example is on Workaholics where their in therapy together and Adam’s like:

    I know you’re trying to hurt my feelings right now with that but I LOVE IT and Imma say it all the time now

    Maybe a bit intense but I love that idea of simply

    I love it and Imma do it ALL THE TIME now

    But like, positive and authentic cuz youvlove it and even in the absense of a subject to mirror, like that basketball thing how you play like nobody’s watching or something as the nexus to greatness and fullfillment/self-love

    Edit: are there any legs to the mimesis keyword in the context?

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      “Mirroring” isn’t an insult, or necessarily manipulative. It is literally built in to us humans! Our brains have specific portions dedicated to imitation and empathy called “mirror neurons”.

      These neurons help us feel what others around us are feeling. It’s why you feel sad when you see someone else being sad. Or why it can make us smile to see someone else having a great day!

      The behavior of mirroring someone is a form of social bonding (“See! I’m like you!”) which is the basis of building human relationships.

      Having in-jokes and picking up particular quirks of people around us probably has a special jargon to psychologists.

      But I think it’s really just being friends.

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        I simply meant mirroring is more episodic/acute as opposed to someone changing and adopting that change either in perpetuity or for something a bit longer term

        Edit: but now I think about it, my examples were more like that whereas the larger idea I was reaching for was that of whatever the root concept of memetic is

        Edit: also funny cuz I use and love Memmy!