I have imposter syndrome, both at work and in my relationship.

  • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I never feel like I fit in clothing wise no matter what. I’ve figured out a way to make a lot of pocket money and I continually buy clothes and shoes in the hopes that one day I feel right but I seldom do.

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      4 months ago

      May I ask your body type? You don’t have to answer here if you don’t want to, but I have daughters of various shapes but similar sizes, might be able to help. I am literally more confident naked than in badly fitting clothes, you are not crazy. Those pictures you see online are tailored and styled, not off the rack. And often photoshopped as well.

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        4 months ago

        I’m average to hippy, shall we say. I have large breasts so even when I’m at my thinnest I still need larger tops.