• Tinidril@midwest.social
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      1 month ago

      The fact that someone’s gender makes a difference is part of that “social wound” they mentioned.

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        1 month ago

        of course it makes a difference. that’s how power dynamics work. i think it’s very rich to complain about people being fragile while demonstrating peak fragility that you can’t just show porn to people who don’t consent to it.