You must log in or register to comment.
Be direct in communication when needed, otherwise just don’t.
Thanks yea being direct is important for sure.
Stop caring. There is nobody you could be that will please everybody, and if there was…there’d be nothing of you left as you morphed to fit the situation and company around you. Just be yourself and ignore their passive aggressive BS or avoid if possible.
(yes, it is that simple but still harder than it sounds. Ask yourself “Do I need to give a shit about this?” and the answer will usually be no.)
Do they dislike me for no good reason? If yes: fuck them, I’m awesome!
Do they dislike me because I did something dumb? Let’s talk and let me appologise if I cocked something up for you. My intentions are rarely malicius.
This let’s me live a happy life knowing I didn’t ruin anyone’s day and ignore the rest.
Agreed.
Because of my kind nature it isn’t very often that people dislike me or have a problem with me.
When they do it’s always the same story for 99% of other people. So they just don’t get along with anyone. Can’t people please them all…
At work, it can be difficult, specially if it’s someone you have to work with.
The adult way is to have a talk about it and figure out what’s causing the issue.
The childish way is to talk shit about the person with others and gather support for you being right and the other person being a weirdo.
Most people go with the childish way since it’s easier and doesn’t require courage.
Empathy
Don’t.
Any tips on dealing with people that don’t like you?
I would normally order my goons to deal with them.
Sure thing, boss, working on it
