• TheAnonymouseJoker@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    The basis of your statement when you say “less chance of the guy being coerced to do this by power dynamics” has a historical context of “both women and men tease it as the abused man “wanting it” and/or “enjoying the touch””. Both men and women have encouraged this behaviour against men in the exact same way women get eve teased or their butts spanked. But women are the perpetrators of this male SA/rape stuff, since they demand it or covertly blackmail men.

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      1 year ago

      That’s a big wall of text that doesn’t answer my questions - can you answer them directly? You can provide as much context as you feel necessary to explain your yes or no answer, but please provide a yes or no answer so I fully understand where you stand.

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        1 year ago

        3 sentences is not a wall of text. And life is not as simple as a yes or no. You should have refrained from talking if you cannot even talk or read that much.

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          Oh I read it, but it simply didn’t answer my question. You provided context, sure, but ultimately did not state a conclusive answer, and across two, maybe three comments now? you are still unable to answer my simple questions. We’re not exactly discussing the meaning of life here.

          Do you think it is likely for women to physically force a man to give her head?

          I feel like that’s a simple enough question, since it’s isolated to physical means. Which gender typically has more strength? Which gender typically has more means to threaten with violence?

          Further dodging the question will only suggest the extent of the mental gymnastics you’re going through to avoid cognitive dissonance.

          You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. I’m not going to bother anymore if you refuse to answer a simple question.