I was talking to a female friend and young Arnold Schwarzenegger came up on conversation. I pulled up a picture of him and spent a long time looking at it. Then said "I am trying to decide if he is attractive.

I know for me women who are fit and toned, attractive. Once a woman is muscular, attractive falls off a cliff. Probably because they start looking like a man.

The Arnold picture

Edit yes I am a guy

  • Tiefling IRL@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I know for me women who are fit and toned, attractive. Once a woman is muscular, attractive falls off a cliff

    Speak for yourself

    - A lesbian

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        6 months ago

        Once a woman is muscular, attractive falls off a cliff

        There. I have removed the context from your quote and you find yourself on the defensive once again. Have at you!

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            6 months ago

            Partially poking at OP’s assailer. Partially showing why OP’s message could be read the way it [seemingly] was. It’s really quite a silly thread.

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      As a fellow lesbian, there is definitely a cliff, but it’s post karlach. Personally the older I get the more I love a mom bod, but a jocky herbo type? Yeah I’m down. But once you get into bodybuilder levels yeah no. Though as I say this, it’s not the muscle, it’s the contrast of high muscle with low body fat. Because like, yeah powerlifters can get it, but when you start looking like Arnold with tits, nah.