• funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    why can’t I decide what’s best for me? ages 18-21 I worked for my local city in projects designed to get local young people at risk of offending into projects like (legal) graffiti, music, arts, sports and volunteering.

    Surely that was a better benefit to society than learning how to walk in the same rhythm as a group of other people?

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      5 months ago

      Same reason we don’t let kids decide if they want to go to school or not. Not everyone is going to make the right choice. People do things for their and societies good. You really don’t think most people are currently doing that can you?

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        5 months ago

        but we let these “kids” choose their degrees, or jobs and - indeed potentially train them for the military - at that age.

        And who is to say the military is the right choice? If someone yells at me to do push ups in the mud - in any other context I am well within my rights to tell them to fuck off. Which is entirely normal behavior.

        In general, yes, the majority of people are doing some kind of good for themselves, families and communities. People volunteer, raise kids, donate to charity, recycle, care for sick relatives, help their neighbors and friends…