Idk man these things are super dependent on locality, you know how it is.

Actually it’s so they can catch the tooth fairy at customs. Your teeth will still be ripped out, you’ll just also get justice for it.

Brains that run faster than average are very cool and impressive to people who don’t have to live in them.

I looked him up on YouTube because I wanted to see what you meant and all the comments say he’s been replaced with AI.

Damn. That show got weird.

What red flags? He’s a solid, hardworking, and nonjudgmental family man! Unless in the later seasons I haven’t seen he becomes a shithead?

Zuko from AtLA, but part of that was also a deep experiential empathy for his character growth arc. Also sometimes having undefined gender issues at the same time makes it really hard to tell whether a feeling like that is attraction or envy.

One of my favorites in highschool and made EDM my favorite genre (well, that and playing speed over Beethoven in DDR). My faves now are apashe and avicii. If anyone knows any EDM that incorporates classical elements (especially strings and/or piano) I am ALL ears.

The logic behind it is that it’s a bribe “tip”-based system. The “tips” often provide more than a living wage, so it really works out better this way!

Nursing/Psychiatry: here’s what to pack for your friend in the psych hospital!

• T-shirts, logos fine, avoid anything explicit/vulgar
• stretchy pants, no drawstring or that can have the drawstring removed and don’t need a belt
• a sweater without a hood or zipper
• socks
• slide on shoes (no laces)
• a puzzle book with more than one type of puzzle
• a book in a genre they like
• a coloring book
• a notebook to write in
• crayons
• a stress ball
• one of those silicone bubble popper toys
• snacks/food that are still sealed or that have one of those doordasher stickers fast food places use sometimes.

DON’T bring:

• anything with long strings or cords
• anything sharp or pointy or made of glass or ceramic
• plastic bags
• bedding/pillows
• anything valuable or sentimental other than maybe a smartphone, and ID

I often wish more of my adult psych patients’ parents had done some reading about psychosocial development and how to support the child at each stage but more importantly I pretty much always wish they’d cared half as much as you did to even ask that question.

I’ve always thought it seemed like a design flaw that whole people can be created accidentally.

Meanwhile if I look like one of those great danes that thinks it’s a chihuahua in the lap of any man under 6 foot and few have considered that unthreatening.

…all of the above? They’re pretty standardized cosmetology concepts. I feel like you’re trying to make a “gotcha” a la modern cancel culture’s narrow understanding of beauty standards beyond pure capitalist sales tactics or even just a general philosophical overcomplication of a concept that’s actually pretty simple and widely applicable.

There’s a lot of basic cosmetic / aesthetic concepts that are relatively stable even across time and cultures, but that are still widely applicable enough that you can account for narrower or subcultural variations.

So for instance face shapes, like I said. Oval faces are gonna look good with the widest range of hair styles, but generally speaking large flat bangs or long unlayered hair are going to sit strangely on the proportions. As far as hairstyles go that barely even counts as specific, but it does help point you in an artistic direction that’s most likely to generate a pleasing result to most people.

Now that last bit is where you seem like you want to quibble about (people on the internet LOVE to nitpick casually made absolute statements; its an extremely easy to learn logical concept that you can use to derail a wide variety of otherwise useful conversations) so I’d like to refocus this conversation on my original point:

If you would like to be more broadly attractive to a wider range of people, here’s the general style guide from people who have a good eye for that kind of thing. If you’d rather just be an odd-shaped pot and sit around and wait for your lid, that’s completely fine too. Often those are some of the best relationships. The issue is a lot of people lack the introspective clarity to accept that weird shaped lids often take a while to find. A lot of these people become rather upset that there’s “no answer” to why it’s taking them so long to find someone when there absolutely is an answer, just not one that requires 0 effort from them.

I’m rather partial to a nice square goatee these days but that’s probably just because that’s what looks best on my current partner (I like him a lot). Beards are very similar to haircuts in that they are best groomed with consideration for the person’s other visual characteristics such as face shape, overall style sense, and the amount of contrast and undertones of their hair and skin.

So many men would be 500% more attractive if they literally just took a day to sit down and do some basic research into what styles of head and facial hair look best on them, as well as what clothes and colors suit their current body type and how to pick glasses shapes and stuff. It feels like most men are like 5 infographics and a little advice from a friend with decent fashion sense away from being hot as all hell.

Edit: did a little googling and my vagina / feminine libido would like to sign off on Bespoke Unit Even if you’re not much for suits, they’ve got a lot of good info on how to pick the right hair, beard, glasses, etc, and they talk about how to dress a variety of body types respectfully but also without hedging.

I mean transport / delivery of goods in general is a solid job that’s pretty essential to modern society. Especially super essential items like food and medicine. I’d much rather a child look up to a delivery driver or trucker than a CEO. The capitalist branding for the wage-slave version of the job is a bit much. Its just another example of capitalism sucking all the intrinsic and extrinsic value out of decent humans just trying to do a job that benefits others.

I thought I was the only one who knew this existed. I did a lot of Linux / FOSS gaming as a kid…

here’s your sticker for being the rightest on the internet today: ⭐

I’ve met some people in those industries whose poor luck in life (particularly prolonged poverty) has led to some unpleasant personality quirks, but that’s less of an issue of personal moral failings and more of an indictment of the society we live in.